Tips for Parents

Parenting can be challenging at times, but extremely rewarding. Here are a few tips to help you have a better relationship with your child.

• Take care of yourself physically and emotionally. Take time to exercise, read, nap or work on a special project to recharge your batteries.
• You are a mirror for your children. They believe what you say about them. Use words that help, not words that hurt.
• Respect children and use a courteous tone of voice. Respect brings respect. A pleasant tone of voice can pay off in an improved relationship.
• Children are never too old to be told they are loved. Say it or write it in a note that your child can keep.
• Give your child chores around the house. It helps build cooperation and responsibility.
• Rules help children feel secure. Without limits, children do not know where they stand and what they are supposed to do.
• Help children feel good about their successes with "you" messages. Instead of "I am proud of you," try "You really worked hard on that, I bet that makes you feel proud.”